How to stop feeling powerless &
become the hero of your own life - #014
Today I am speaking about how to stop feeling powerless and become the hero of your own life.
Do you ever feel powerless or out of control in certain situations and you just feel like giving up?
In this episode, you will learn how to rise from victimhood and step into the hero so you can take full responsibility for your life.
I love this quote from Steve Chandler, he writes: ”Victims and pessimists hate to be fixed, hate to be corrected, and even hate to be taught things. Because their whole position is defensive”.
This quote describes the core of victimhood.
Victims are always defensive and arguing for their limitations.
They are operating from a place of defensiveness and justifying why they are, not where they want to be.
I believe that every single one of us wants to be our own HERO.
Nobody wants to be a victim and today, I will show you how to stop feeling powerless, so you can finally become the hero of your own life.
What does it mean to be a victim?
Why, when you behave like a victim, you feel stuck, like you have no choice.
Why feeling out of power or control over a situation translates into not having responsibility for your results and feeling sorry for yourself.
Why, when you blame others or circumstances, you become powerless.
Why a victim needs for the world to change in order for them to be OK.
Understanding that victimhood can show up in sneaky ways that sometimes you don’t notice.
Why feeling sorry for yourself leads you to more inaction and feeling stuck.
Why, when you don’t take ownership it leads you to feel sorry for yourself
Why we all want to be our hero and tell the story of overcoming our challenges.
Why, when you are stuck feeling sorry for yourself, you are only interested in fixing your massive problem if it’s convenient.
Why recognizing that you are being a victim can be painful but at the same time the biggest awakening of your life.
When you become the hero of your life, you more worried about the cost of the problem than the cost of the solution.
Why, when you become the hero of your life, you understand that the BIGGEST cost is missing out on your life.
Why, when you are the hero you understand the cost of being a lower version of yourself, the cost of wasting your time and your life.
Why in order to become the best version of you, you need to step outside your comfort zone and be willing to pay the price it takes.
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