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Why having it your way is the problem - #006


Episode #006

Today we are having a conversation about why having it your way is the problem.

The goal of this episode is for you to see that there are no problems.

Let me say that again, you don’t have a problem, but that you actually ARE the problem.

You see wanting life to be a specific way or wanting a person to behave a certain way is the real problem.

Let me break that down and expand on that.

The thought ”I want it that way” is the problem. When you think that you want something to be or look a particular way, it is precisely your thinking what creates the problem.

So the whole problem starts with you.

When you tell yourself, I have a problem and I need to fix it, usually what happens is that you get frustrated and the problem persists.

What if it is YOU, the state of mind that you’re operating from, that is the cause of every problem in your life?

Let me say that in other words, What if it is your way of thinking and feeling, your state of consciousness, your level of awareness, is the real problem?

What if YOU are the actual problem here?

In this episode, we are going to dive deep into this topic so you can finally see why having it your way is the problem that’s keeping you stuck.


Why you don’t have a problem, but you actually ARE the problem.

Why you feel frustrated when you tell yourself: “you need to fix a problem”

How the real problem can be your own level of awareness, your thinking, and feelings.

Why wanting something your way is the actual problem, because it puts the problem outside of you, and it requires the outside world to change for you to be OK.

Why change needs to come from you first.

Why you need to stop asking the question: ”What is the problem here? And instead, you need to ask, ”Why am I making this a problem?”

Why magic happens and problems dissolve when you release control of how things should look like.

The importance of understanding that when you are stuck looking at something as a problem you are also being presented with one set of solutions and you limit the possibilities.

When you instead shift into a higher state of mind you open up to all kinds of possibilities that are not available when you are stuck looking at something in a certain way.


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